Sarwendah Consults a Psychologist After Being Raided by Debt Collectors

Kapanlagi.com - A shocking incident has just befallen Sarwendah Tan. The house she lives in with her children was suddenly visited by two debt collectors looking for the whereabouts of a luxury car belonging to her ex-husband, Ruben Onsu.

The arrival of these unknown individuals is suspected to be related to issues concerning overdue vehicle payments recorded in the name of the famous presenter. This incident has had a serious psychological impact on Sarwendah.

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1. Consultation with a Psychologist

Sarwendah Cries © KapanLagi.com/Fikri Alfi Rosyadi

When met at Soekarno Hatta International Airport, Tangerang, on Wednesday (18/11/2025), the 36-year-old woman did not deny that the incident had shaken her to the point where she needed to seek professional help.

"I went to a psychologist, yes," she said briefly when confirmed about the news of her visiting a mental health expert following the incident.

2. Misguided Intimidation

Sarwendah Wipes Her Tears © KapanLagi.com/Fikri Alfi Rosyadi

The situation at that time was quite confusing and distressing for Sarwendah. This was because two debt collectors forced her to inquire about Ruben Onsu's car, which was actually not at Sarwendah's residence. She felt like a wrong target as she had to face intimidation in her own home, even though the car they were looking for was not at the location.

3. Shocked and Scared During the Raid

Sarwendah Takes Off Her Glasses © KapanLagi.com/Fikri Alfi Rosyadi

Sarwendah explained the vulnerable position she felt at that time. As a woman who was suddenly "raided" by strangers in her own home, feeling scared was a natural reaction.

"I just want to ask, Sis, if you are a woman, and suddenly someone comes to your house, wouldn't you be shocked? Wouldn't you be scared? That's all," she asked rhetorically to the media crew.

4. Prioritize the Safety of Your Children

A Glance from Sarwendah © KapanLagi.com/Fikri Alfi Rosyadi

The worries of Thalia Putri Onsu's mother are increasing, especially since she does not live alone. The presence of her children in the house is her top priority that she must protect from potential dangers or trauma due to the arrival of strangers.

"Moreover, I'm a woman, I have children at home, you know," she added with a concerned tone.

5. Reluctant to Discuss Details of the Issue

Sarwendah Swollen Eyes © KapanLagi.com/Fikri Alfi Rosyadi

Regarding the details of the debt and the dispute over her ex-husband's car, Sarwendah is reluctant to comment further. She has fully entrusted the matter to her legal team to avoid misunderstandings that could worsen the situation after the divorce.

"Thank you, friends. I have to go now. Everything has been answered by my lawyer, okay? So I hope everything can be fine. You know, I am a very private person. You also know I love peace, you know," she said while walking towards the departure gate.

6. Doesn't Want to Say the Wrong Thing

Sarwendah at the Funeral © KapanLagi.com/Fikri Alfi Rosyadi

Ruben Onsu's ex-wife emphasizes that she is very careful in speaking to protect her children's mental health. She does not want to say something wrong that could corner her or have a negative impact on the family.

"And I think about everything for my children, you know. So, I don't want to be blamed later or whatever, say something wrong, and then it gets twisted. So, it's already in the lawyer's domain, I'll just follow what the lawyer says," she explained.

7. Q&A Sarwendah Raided by Debt Collector

Sarwendah Holds Back Tears © KapanLagi.com/Fikri Alfi Rosyadi

Q: What happened to Sarwendah?

A: Sarwendah was visited by a debt collector looking for a luxury car belonging to her ex-husband, Ruben Onsu.

Q: What is the impact of this incident on Sarwendah and her children?

A: This incident had a serious psychological impact, making Sarwendah and her children feel shocked and traumatized.

Q: Why did Sarwendah consult a psychologist?

A: Sarwendah consulted a psychologist to cope with the psychological effects experienced by her and her children.

Q: What suspicions does Sarwendah's side have regarding the arrival of the debt collector?

A: Sarwendah's side suspects that someone intentionally directed the debt collector to the wrong address.

(kpl/aal/rsp)