Sarwendah Denies Making It Difficult for Ruben Onsu to Meet the Children

"Moreover, if we talk about news that is supposedly hard to find, it's really not that difficult. It's very easy, just WhatsApp me, WhatsApp me, we can coordinate schedules," said Sarwendah at Soekarno Hatta International Airport, Tangerang, Wednesday (19/11/2025).

This mother of three explained that the obstacles that occur are most likely just a matter of scheduling conflicts. Her children, like Thalia and Thania, as well as Betrand Peto, have quite a packed schedule of school and tutoring every day, so their free time must be managed well."Because the kids are busy too, the kids have a lot of schedules. Like just now, Cici Thalia hasn't come home yet. So, we just need to arrange it, coordinate the schedules," she added.

Furthermore, Sarwendah requested that this issue not be prolonged or dramatized. For her, the most important thing is the initiative for communication to arrange meeting times. She feels sorry if the children have to get caught up in their parents' polemics that should be resolved internally.

"Dad just sent me a WhatsApp chat, wanting to meet the kids, coordinating schedules, we’ve already met, right? So, there’s no need to prolong it. Yeah, no need to prolong it, feel sorry for the kids," Sarwendah firmly stated.

Regarding the issue of Ruben Onsu changing his phone number which caused a breakdown in communication, Sarwendah was reluctant to comment much. She felt that it was not her place to answer, considering Ruben has direct access to their children's personal number.

Sarwendah stated, "If the problem is, Dad has the kids' number, you know. So it seems that this is already in Dad's domain, not in my domain to answer, you know. So, this is between Dad and the kids. Don’t ask me, I’m afraid I’ll get twisted in the story."

This woman, born in Jakarta, reiterates that as a mother, she has full responsibility for her children's daily activities. She only asks for clear coordination so that there are no scheduling conflicts between the children's activities and their father's visits."Hey, please ask, because the last time I coordinated with Dad, he said, 'Dad can't take you,' you know. It's as simple as just chatting with me, setting a schedule. No one is making it difficult for them to meet their father, no one," she concluded.