Sarwendah's Party Denies Allegations of Blocking Ruben Onsu from Meeting Their Children

Kapanlagi.com - The party of Sarwendah firmly denies allegations that their client has obstructed Ruben Onsu from meeting their children. Sarwendah's attorney, Chris Sam Siwu, even stated that the statement from Ruben's party almost constitutes a new defamation directed at his client.

According to Chris, Sarwendah has never once prohibited her ex-husband from meeting their children. He challenged the opposing party to provide evidence of conversations supporting those allegations. So far, according to him, what has occurred is merely a matter of scheduling conflicts and poor communication.

"What is the connection between communication issues regarding parenting with parenting itself? What is certain is that our client has never. Try to prove just one chat from our client that states, yes, that our client does not allow the father to meet his children. There has never been any," asserted Chris Sam Siwu when met in the Cilandak area, South Jakarta, on Wednesday (19/11/2025).

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1. Prioritize the Child's Wishes

Sarwendah's Legal Counsel (cr:KapanLagi.com/Fikri Alfi Rosyadi)

Chris explained that Sarwendah always prioritizes her children's wishes. If a child's desire to do something conflicts with Ruben's desired meeting schedule, Sarwendah will prioritize the child's wishes.

"It's just that this meeting with their grandmother coincides with the child's desire to play somewhere. Should we prioritize the others? This is the parenting that Sarwendah practices. So, she is very aware of her child's wishes, and it is followed, yes, it just requires communication," he said.

2. Regretting This Issue Being Raised Publicly

Sarwendah's Legal Counsel in Front of the Media (cr:KapanLagi.com/Fikri Alfi Rosyadi)

Sarwendah's side strongly regrets that this issue has been raised publicly. According to them, the matter of meeting with the child should be resolved through direct communication between Sarwendah and Ruben, without involving other parties who do not understand the parenting style being applied.

"So, we emphasize that this did not happen, and we almost see it as a new slander against our client," Chris concluded.

3. Q&A

Q: Is it true that Sarwendah is preventing Ruben Onsu from meeting their children?
A: Sarwendah's party, through her legal counsel Chris Sam Siwu, firmly denies the allegation and states that Sarwendah has never forbidden Ruben from meeting their children.

Q: What is the reason for Sarwendah's party denying the allegation?
A: According to Chris Sam Siwu, the issue that occurred was merely a scheduling conflict and a lack of smooth communication, not a prohibition. Sarwendah also always prioritizes the children's wishes in the parenting process.

Q: Why has this issue become public consumption?
A: Sarwendah's party deeply regrets that this issue has been brought to the public, as they believe that the matter of meeting the children should be resolved through direct communication between Sarwendah and Ruben without involving other parties.

(kpl/far/dyn)