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Venna Melinda Hands Over Her Match to God's Destiny After Becoming Ferry Irawan's Widow, Chooses to Focus on Networking

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Kapanlagi.com - Venna Melinda, who is now officially divorced from Ferry Irawan, claimed to be more open in living her life. When met at the South Jakarta Religious Court on Friday (12/6/2024), Venna expressed her desire to expand her social network after previously feeling less sociable.

"Now I have to do a lot of networking, before I was too closed off, now I have to be open," said Venna.

This mother of three shared that many of her old friends, especially from the political world, have invited her to socialize again. "Like this, I want to attend a gathering with friends who were members of the DPR from 2014-2019. So we can reconnect. We never used to attend events, now we’re starting again," she added.

However, regarding romantic relationships, Venna admitted that no one is approaching her at the moment. "No one, I’m not an easy person, it’s hard, because it’s difficult to socialize like this," she said with a smile.

1. Surrender to God

Venna also emphasized that she does not want to be too selective in finding a partner. "It's not about being selective, it's more about asking God, because only God knows what is best for me. If I rely on human judgment, I could be wrong, but if I sincerely ask for guidance from God through istikharah, hopefully God will grant it, that's all," she explained.

When asked about Ferry Irawan declaring his status as a widower, Venna responded casually. "Well, just congratulations," Venna said briefly.

2. Maintaining Privacy

Regarding her relationship with her ex-husband, Venna mentioned that good communication does not always have to be done directly. "If it's good, it doesn't have to be through communication, we can maintain each other's dignity. Not revealing each other's flaws is, in my opinion, more than just communication," she said.

Venna believes that maintaining privacy is a more meaningful form of respect. "Communication can come from the heart, we respect each other's privacy, and mine is respected as well. That's more than enough," she stated.

Even though she is now living as a single parent, Venna chooses to focus on positive things and strengthen her relationships with friends. According to her, this is an important step to maintain life balance.

Venna is also determined to remain professional and maintain good relationships with all parties, including her ex-husband. "I think if each party respects the other, that's enough to show respect," she added.

(kpl/aal/ums)

Disclaimer: This translation from Bahasa Indonesia to English has been generated by Artificial Intelligence.
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