Kapanlagi.com - This year's Eid is a special moment for the singer Selvi Kitty as it marks her second Eid as a widow. Nevertheless, she maintains a good relationship with her ex-husband, Rangga Ilham.
"It's all good, besides, Rangga and I still communicate smoothly and well," Selvi Kitty said when met in Kebayoran Lama, South Jakarta, Thursday (20/3/2025).
Selvi emphasizes that divorce is not an obstacle to maintaining good relations. In fact, she and Rangga have planned to visit her former in-laws' house together with their child.
"Just yesterday I chatted with him about Eid, we will also visit my former in-laws' house together with my child," she said.
"He is very welcoming, and that moment I will post a photo of the three of us, to show that divorce is not a problem in life, I can be with Rangga to raise our child together even though we are not in the same marriage," she added.
1. Set a Good Example for the Child
Although she shares moments together with Rangga, Selvi admits that she is not influenced by netizen comments hoping they reconcile. For her, the most important thing is to set a good example for their child.
"Of course, but just stay positive, if you’ve ever divorced and it’s not good, that’s not good for the child," Selvi said.
2. Raising a Child Together
Selvi realizes that separation is not easy for their child. However, she and Rangga strive to ensure that their child continues to receive enough love.
"I want the child to feel that the parents are still united even though they do not live together. If the parents are separated, I want to show the child that the parents can be good to each other," Selvi said.
Even though they have separated, Selvi and Rangga continue to cooperate in raising their child. She emphasizes that maintaining a good relationship with her ex-husband is important.
"I can be with Rangga to raise the child together even though we are not in the same marriage," she said.
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