7 Confessions of a Beautiful Blogger About Her Marriage to a Japanese Adult Film Actor

Kapanlagi.com - In the Japanese adult film industry, the actor Ken Shimizu is very popular. He is known to have starred in thousands of adult films and has had sexual relations with thousands of different women. One thing that makes people curious is how the personal life of an adult film actor like Ken is like.

Well, in 2018, Ken caused a sensation throughout Japan with his marriage to a beautiful woman named Haruka Ito. Hachu, as she is affectionately called, is known as a novelist and blogger. In an interview, Hachu talked about her relationship and married life with a top-level adult film actor like Ken Shimizu.

"My husband is an adult film actor. The first time I saw him was when a friend shared his video with me. At that time, I thought this guy was really interesting, so I followed him on Twitter. And it turned out that he also knew about me because I had appeared in the media before, then he sent me a DM saying, 'I want to be your friend' and we exchanged contacts," Hachu said as quoted from the Youtube channel Nobita From Japan.

1. Initially Unimpressed with Ken Shimizu

Haruka Ito and Ken Shimizu / Credit: Instagram - ha_chu

When they first met, Hachu's impression of Ken was so bad. She even thought about not meeting him again because their personalities were so different and incompatible.

"At first, I wasn't interested in him (Ken) at all. He was actually shorter than I thought, and his face was so small. He also made a lot of dirty jokes in front of me. I really didn't like guys like him, I didn't want to meet him again. My first impression of him was really that bad," Hachu continued.

2. Setting Aside Bias Towards Adult Film Actor's Job

Hachu thought that subconsciously she didn't like Ken because she was too biased towards his job as an adult film actor. After trying to eliminate her bias, Hachu could get to know Ken better and became interested in him.

"But at the same time, my heart told me that I wanted to overcome something that had been a negative point for me. Yes, he's definitely not my type, but at least he has a lot of funny stories even though they're vulgar. So I thought maybe I could learn a lot from him. Then I realized that the reason I didn't like him was because I was unconsciously too judgmental and biased towards his job as an adult film actor. So I thought maybe I should see him without bias. So when he asked me out again, I accepted him and from there I began to understand his personality more deeply and started to be interested in him," she continued.

3. Reactions of People Around Haruka Ito

Haruka Ito and Ken Shimizu / Credit: Instagram - ha_chu

The marriage of Hachu and Ken certainly invites controversy from the public. Although there are many criticisms, in reality, those closest to Hachu actually give their support. And for Hachu, that is enough.

"All my acquaintances congratulate us, but our marriage is reported in various Japanese media and most people's opinions are, 'Marrying a porn actor? She must be crazy!'. So not everyone in Japan supports our marriage. Especially since our marriage was held in an unusual way, it caused other controversies," said this 34-year-old woman.

4. It Took a Long Time to Accept Her Husband's Job

Although they are married, Ken still continues his job as a porn actor. So how does Hachu accept the fact that her husband goes to work and has physical relations with other women?

"Actually, it took about 2 years to mentally accept his job. Sometimes I experience hyperventilation or wake up in the middle of the night and cry suddenly. But seeing his attitude towards his job, I can say that he is not just having physical relations with other women, but it's purely because he is professional in his work. After seeing how difficult the job is and the effort he puts into it, I finally convinced myself that he is only doing this as a job," said this mother of one.

5. Marrying a Hot Film Actor is Like Learning a New Religion

Haruka Ito and Ken Shimizu / Credit: Instagram - ha_chu

Slowly, Hachu finally accepted her husband's job. However, she emphasized that she would not tolerate infidelity outside of her husband's work. For Hachu, marrying Ken was like entering a whole new world.

"Because he works so hard, I want to accept him, so I changed my perspective. I thought that if I married him, I had to change my point of view. For me, it feels like learning a new religion. It takes time, but slowly I started to change my perspective. So now I can say to him with a smile, 'Good luck with your work today'," added Hachu.

6. Explaining Husband's Job to the Child

Haruka Ito and Ken Shimizu / Credit: Instagram - ha_chu

From their marriage, Hachu and Ken were blessed with a son. And one day, when their child grows up, Hachu has agreed to tell him about his father's job with pride.

"We will explain to him (the child) confidently, like, 'Your father is a hot film actor. So what?'. We don't consider it shameful. If we feel guilty, our child will think that his father is doing something wrong," Hachu firmly stated.

7. Many Men Thankful to Ken Shimizu

Another interesting fact, it turns out that Ken is highly respected and admired by many men from various backgrounds. For most guys in Japan, Ken has provided positive lessons in terms of sex.

"Honestly, there are so many people in Japan who are very thankful to my husband. When I go to his workplace or fan meetings, I see many people thanking him, like, 'I couldn't satisfy my girlfriend in bed before, but thanks to you, I've become better'. From young students to company bosses, everyone knows him and thanks him for his work," Hachu concluded.

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