Detail Statements from Kim Seon Ho and His Ex-Friends, Broke Up and Celebrated Pregnancy Before Agreeing to Abortion

Kapanlagi.com - After more than a week, Kim Seon Ho's scandal has shaken the K-drama world, including in Indonesia. Dispatch has released their investigation regarding the actor's relationship with his ex-girlfriend, referred to as Choi Young Ah. Besides revealing the timeline of how they met and Choi Young Ah's post that damaged Kim Seon Ho's career, Dispatch also interviewed friends from both sides. Dispatch also questioned Choi Young Ah's statements that they deemed inconsistent with the facts.

And here are the details (brace yourself, it's really long)!

1. Apology from Choi Young Ah and Request for Reconciliation

Kim Seon Ho and Choi Young Ah first broke up on July 7, 2020. The next day, Choi Young Ah sent a long message apologizing for the lies she made. This is the content of Choi Young Ah's apology:

"I apologize for sending this message, Seon Ho, while you were filming. I love you and want the best for us, but I realize that lying is not justified. I know all my mistakes. I want us to be happy, that's why I lied to you. But now I know it hurts you and makes you suffer. I'm heartbroken right now, but it's my fault. So I will learn from all of this and accept all this pain.

I know you don't want to listen to me now and probably won't believe anything I say. But you mean everything to me, so I want to apologize from the bottom of my heart. I'm sorry for the moments that hurt you.

I've been at home since last night and thinking about what would happen if I didn't do this. I also thought about what you feel and what I can do now. I decided to change and be more honest with you. I used to think that I'm a complicated person and can't share many things about myself, but now I realize that I can actually choose to be open with you. It's embarrassing indeed because only now I know that it was all actually my fault because you once convinced me but I didn't understand.

This doesn't mean that I don't mind lying. I did this because I love you so much. The truth is, what I feel for you is more than just love. I appreciate you and always want to protect you. And this is what I think made me make the wrong decision.

Yesterday, you tried to give me a second chance so that I could make things right between us. I know I have disappointed you more than we can fix now, but if you feel in your heart that there is a chance for me to try again, I will give my best.

Lying is not my habit. I made a mistake because we have been arguing a lot lately and I don't want to make us more uncomfortable. I'm stupid for making that decision, but honestly I just wanted us to be happy. That's it. I'm not looking for excuses for the decision I made. I'm just saying I did what was best for us. I regret it now.

I know if I were honest, maybe you would say everything is fine. But I feel like you would worry in your heart. And I just want you to feel truly safe with me. If I think about it again, I don't know if I would do the same thing if I were in your position. I know you have tried hard to understand where I come from. I also know that you have helped me make the right decisions. That's why yesterday I felt like I could finally admit it, I felt like I could say everything and start over well. Maybe this really surprised you, I know how you feel offended and confused.

I am very selfish, but being with you makes me hope for a bright future for us. But it also makes me afraid since you have become more popular with your career in television shows, movies, and others. I start to feel pressured, I feel like I have to be a better person too so that I deserve to be by your side, so that we can have the future we dream of.

That's why I have been impulsive in many things lately. I was impulsive with the contract and YouTube. It's not for money or success at all. It's because I want to be someone who deserves to be with you.

You must be very angry and betrayed now. But I never intended to make you feel that way. I just want us to be happy. I should have known what is right. Can you let me fix all of this? I promise, I will regain your trust. I know you are disappointed because I keep making the same mistakes and there is no reason in your heart to trust me again. I also know that you may not want anything to do with me anymore, but please give me one chance. I will do anything to fix all of this with you and I want to give us a chance to try again.

You are the only one I have, Seon Ho. If you leave me too, I will be prepared for it, because I love you. That's how big my love is and how serious I am about you. But if you give me one chance to make all of this right, I will do it. Can you remember the beautiful things about us and let us try again? I will never hide anything from you again and I will never justify my mistakes."

2. Kim Seon Ho Talks About Choi Young Ah to a Friend

After receiving an apology from Choi Young Ah, Kim Seon Ho confided in his friend (let's call them Friend A). Here is the content of their chat.

Kim Seon Ho: I just broke up. It's really funny.

Friend A: This morning?

Kim Seon Ho: I knew she was lying yesterday. I gave her a chance before. But she lied again, saying she didn't go out with another guy, but she did.

Kim Seon Ho: What's worse, when I asked her, she thought I was talking about something else. So she ended up talking about another guy she met.

Friend A: She must have met a lot of guys.

Kim Seon Ho: She met those guys for work, but she didn't want to tell me.

Kim Seon Ho: I told her she could go to clubs and meet other guys. I said I wouldn't be mad as long as she told me where she was and chatted with me while at home. But that's all she couldn't do.

Friend A: That's what we always want, but never get.

Kim Seon Ho: There was a time when I finished shooting early. So I asked her what she was doing, she said she was sleeping. I went to her house with a gift, but she wasn't home. Her car was also not there. After that, she said she wouldn't lie again. I was really angry.

Friend A: You should date someone else. Don't date someone who makes you stressed.

Kim Seon Ho: (sending a text apology to Choi Young Ah)

Friend A: What's your opinion?

Kim Seon Ho: I still like her, but I know where this relationship is going.

Kim Seon Ho: And I know she will start lying again.

Friend A: Yeah, that's probably more likely.

Friend A: Can you see a future with her?

Kim Seon Ho: Not sure, to be honest.

Kim Seon Ho: She expressed her feelings in that text, but yeah... sigh.

Friend A: It's sad to see other people have easy relationships. Falling in love, dating, even getting married. But why is it so hard for us?

Friend A: If I look closely, it seems like he will keep making the same mistakes.

Kim Seon Ho: My head hurts. I'm not sure he can change.

Friend A: What you're showing me is like THE WORLD OF MARRIED and LOVE & WEAR. Those dramas are real.

Kim Seon Ho: When I try to think from other people's perspectives, it makes sense. And I'm caught in the middle of all this, it feels like I'm drowning.

Kim Seon Ho: I can't think clearly and I'm very frustrated.

Friend A: You know he's playing with you, but you just let it happen.

3. Kim Seon Ho Forgives and Reconciles with Choi Young Ah

A day after Choi Young Ah apologized, Kim Seon Ho finally gave her a chance, after confiding in a younger actor colleague and other friends (whom we will refer to as Friend B). Friend B is a theater actor who was previously mentioned by Choi Young Ah in her post (where she said he accompanied her during the abortion). Kim Seon Ho and Friend B are good friends and trust each other.

"She (Choi Young Ah) promised not to do it again. Look at the sincerity in her apology and accept it," said Friend B at the time, as quoted by Dispatch.

4. Choi Young Ah's Pregnancy

Choi Young Ah found out that she was pregnant on July 24, 2020. When she called to inform Kim Seon Ho about it, Choi Young Ah was said to be very emotional. In her statement, Choi Young Ah said that Kim Seon Ho had a negative reaction, but Friend B said that the START-UP actor actually said that pregnancy is a blessing and asked his girlfriend not to cry.

"Initially, they celebrated the pregnancy. Kim Seon Ho said it was a good thing that happened to them. However, deep down, he was scared and really worried about it. Unfortunately, they both agreed to have an abortion and she was careful when telling me about it," said Friend B.

5. Abort Pregnancy

On July 27, 2020, Choi Young Ah aborted her pregnancy. Friend B waited at the clinic while Kim Seon Ho and Choi Young Ah were in the parking lot. They both talked and Choi Young Ah briefly changed her mind. But in the end, they got out of the car and met Friend B to continue the plan of aborting the pregnancy.

"They got out with swollen eyes. Surely this is not an easy opportunity for them. When I went to the hospital with Choi Young Ah, Kim Seon Ho bought ingredients for seaweed soup, even though he can't cook," said Friend B.

After Choi Young Ah aborted her pregnancy, Kim Seon Ho is said to have made seaweed soup for his girlfriend for two weeks. In Korea, this seaweed soup is said to be good for women who have just given birth. In one episode of 2 Day 1 Night, Kim Seon Ho once showed his skill in making seaweed soup and said he had just cooked it at home.

6. Kim Seon Ho Introduces Choi Young Ah to His Parents

In one of her posts, Choi Young Ah said that Kim Seon Ho changed after she had an abortion. Choi Young Ah also said that Kim Seon Ho hid their relationship from his parents. But according to Choi Young Ah's friend (referred to as Friend C) who was also interviewed by Dispatch, Kim Seon Ho actually introduced his girlfriend to his parents. The actor just didn't mention that Choi Young Ah was a widow.

"Even after the abortion, he (Choi Young Ah) became close to Kim Seon Ho's parents. Kim Seon Ho really tried to gain their trust. He even adopted a Shiba dog named Hoa so that Choi Young Ah wouldn't feel lonely when she's alone," said Friend C.

7. Choi Young Ah is Said to Like Luxury Items

Choi Young Ah previously wrote in a post that Kim Seon Ho became blind to money and only gave her 2 million won after the abortion, but another friend (Friend D) told Dispatch a different story.

"Her love for luxury items makes it difficult for Kim Seon Ho. During Christmas, she brought a luxury bag worth 7 million won. She used her credit card, but Kim Seon Ho paid the bill. She showed off about this, that's why we all know.

I was shocked when she mentioned the abortion money.

I never saw Choi Young Ah pay for anything. It's always Kim Seon Ho who pays for her things. Kim Seon Ho likes luxury items? Please. Everyone around Choi Young Ah knows who is actually obsessed with luxury items," said Friend D.

"Choi Young Ah is indeed worried about the abortion. Of course, it's not easy. Kim Seon Ho must also be tired of the lies. Ironically, Choi Young Ah is now criticizing, even though she is also possessive. She checks Kim Seon Ho's phone and DMs. She also wants Kim Seon Ho to go bankrupt and come back to her. That's what happened." said C and D.

8. Difficulties Experienced by Choi Young Ah

Another friend of Kim Seon Ho, Friend E, said that Choi Young Ah overwhelmed the actor in HOMETOWN CHA-CHA-CHA. He remembers an incident that happened in early 2021.

"Kim Seon Ho once said that he was having a hard time because of what happened with Choi Young Ah. It seems that Choi Young Ah said she received threats, was harassed by gangsters, bullied by her ex-husband's new wife, sued, and so on. Kim Seon Ho said he couldn't handle what was happening.

Kim Seon Ho and Choi Young Ah once checked each other's messages on KakaoTalk. At that time, Kim Seon Ho found voice and video recordings of himself saved by Choi Young Ah. If we were in Kim Seon Ho's position, wouldn't that be scary?", said Friend E.

9. Why Did Kim Seon Ho Apologize?

The apology from Kim Seon Ho after this scandal became a topic of discussion. Friend B explained the reasons why Kim Seon Ho made that statement.

"Kim Seon Ho said he didn't want to fight with the whole country watching, because it's true that he didn't protect his baby. He also understands, because there was a time when he loved Choi Young Ah. That's why instead of fighting against what was said about him, he chose to apologize. That's the Kim Seon Ho I know.

Their relationship was actually normal. Kim Seon Ho never hid Choi Young Ah. That's what I know."

10. SALT Entertainment Refuses to Comment

Regarding Dispatch's statement, SALT Entertainment stated that they have no comment. Choi Young Ah herself is still keeping her Instagram account locked.

What do KLovers think about this?

(kor/pit)