Kapanlagi.com - The figure of a father is usually admired by a child like a hero or even their first love. Because the role of a father is extraordinary as the backbone of the family. However, in certain conditions, a father can also disappoint their child and trigger heartache.
The role of a father and mother in a family is certainly very important for the growth and development of a child. Because parents or family are the first education for a child as a provision for living. In this case, a father is usually idolized by their child like a superhero. It's no wonder that the time spent with their father is always anticipated by their child.
A father's love for their child is also immense, even though sometimes they may not know how to directly express their feelings for their child. Unfortunately, there are also fathers who hurt their family and even their child with their wrong actions. For example, a father who selfishly chooses to leave his family to be with someone else.
Whether aware or not, such actions can hurt the child's heart, causing disappointment towards him. Some hurtful words towards the father can momentarily alleviate feelings of disappointment, sadness, anger, and frustration.
The hurtful words towards the father can be found in the following review. Here are the hurtful words towards the father that have been compiled by kapanlagi.com from various sources.
1. Heartbreaking Words Because of a Father Full of Meaning
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Hurtful words towards the father, such as the reviews below, contain deep meanings that can be valuable lessons for you. Because in some situations, a father's actions can also hurt the feelings of his children, leaving emotional scars in their hearts. Here are the hurtful words towards the father.
1. "Disappointment teaches us to see a better side, so we don't get caught up in deep disappointment."
2. "This is not disobedience. There are limits to obeying and being devoted to parents."
3. "A father will not give sad words to his child, but motivational sentences to encourage the child's struggle."
4. "If there is no role of a husband or father, it is very difficult to call it a family."
5. "You should know, a father is his daughter's first love who will never betray or hurt her."
6. "A wounded heart cannot be healed at once. It's even worse if the wound comes from someone you love."
7. "I will savor all the meanings behind the bitter memories you gave me and turn them into lessons for a better future."
8. "When you unconditionally love someone and lose that love, it leaves a wound that never heals, a sad and broken heart, eternal emptiness."
9. "Humans are fragile creatures made of hurt and broken promises."
10. "How beautiful it would be if we respect and understand each other. Don't be selfish and indifferent."
11. "Many people may forget that relationships can last because they are always based on care, responsibility, and complementing each other."
12. "Once you lie, the lies will continue."
2. Heartbreaking Words Because of the Most Touching Father
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A number of hurtful words because of a father below can represent the feelings of a child due to the father's wrong actions. Just listen to the review of hurtful words because of the most touching father.
13. "Father, where is the warm embrace that I used to get when I was little, now it's gone, I don't know where."
14. "Nonsense and falsehoods of the people around me are the main reason why I like to be alone."
15. "Sometimes what is far feels close, and vice versa. I conclude that distance is a feeling. It's not a measurable unit."
16. "Please go if you can't bear to be together anymore, but look at the eyes of the child who always waits for you at home to be together."
17. "Father, when are you coming home? I miss you. I want to play and share many things with you."
18. "If you are too busy to work, then know that children only have one childhood in a lifetime."
19. "They say time will heal everything. But losing someone who loves me like you, the wound is irreplaceable."
20. "Father, can you spare a little time for me who currently wants to meet you even for a while. Why do you keep making me dream and fantasize about meeting you even though the reality is that you can't meet me."
21. "You said you would always be by my side, but the truth is you're not."
22. "Even this love will remain strong, even if it's eroded, slashed, and vanished. It will still be there."
23. "Behind your busyness, there is someone willing to spare their time just to wait for you."
3. Heartbreaking Words Because of a Father Full of Sadness
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Feelings of sadness and disappointment can't be stopped when knowing the wrong actions of a father with his selfishness. So, through these heartbroken words, the following can describe the sad feelings of a disappointed and hurt child.
24. "Sometimes when I wake up, I find myself crying."
25. "When I think about my father, I try to remain patient and accept the reality. I have to be strong to face everything."
26. "Whatever you're looking for will not come in the form you expect."
27. "Father, I don't know why I can be so disappointing like this when I'm an adult. What I know is that it's a manifestation of my disappointment in my adulthood."
28. "Father, in many stories I've heard, in many movies I've watched, a daughter would lean her head on her father's firm shoulder, letting her tears wet her father's shoulder. But father, why is your shoulder too far for me to lean on?"
29. "I have experienced all the bitterness in life, and the most bitter thing is to have hope in humans." - Ali Bin Abi Thalib
30. "Dear father, my heart is disappointed. But isn't forgiving each other more beautiful? Isn't life more beautiful if lived in peace?"
31. "I hold back my disappointment. The meeting that should have been filled with laughter seems to only exist in my imagination."
32. "Father, sometimes I smile as I observe your perfect face. Sometimes I laugh proudly because I resemble you. But father, why are lips that resemble mine rarely smile at me."
33. "It only takes a little space to write how much I miss you. But, it will take my whole life to forget the day I lost you."
34. "If this waiting is endless, then your name will still be praised by me, even if you only seek refuge with her."
35. "Love is entirely about need. Love is about having and keeping, not having and being left."
4. Heartbreaking Words Because of a Father that Makes Self-Reflection
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As for the hurtful words about father below, they can make him introspect on all his mistakes. For example, introspection because of father's irresponsible attitude, wasting the family and hurting the hearts of children and wife. Let's directly see the review of hurtful words about father.
36. "There is no need to pretend to be a faithful husband to your wife, if outside the house you still often gaze softly at other women."
37. "Once you lie, you will continue to lie. Because to cover up your previous lies."
38. "There is an endless longing, which is a wife's longing for her husband."
39. "Your love is like a shadow of water. In the middle of the desert. It's not an oasis, but a layered mirage."
40. "Parents never provide. Should children still be dutiful?"
41. "It's not selfish if you love yourself, pay attention to yourself, and make your happiness a priority. That is a necessity."
42. "Parents are human beings, they can also be wrong, therefore they must constantly improve themselves."
43. "You never forget children like Emily or Andy. But, they forget you."
44. "Don't ask why I often get annoyed or speak in a high tone to you, see if you pay attention to the people around you."
45. "Someone who always pays attention to his wife will surely be loved by his wife and never speak in a high tone."
46. "Just keep your focus on work and work, then everything that you have now will be gone."
47. "Busy people always make time. But if someone pretends to be busy, it seems like they won't have time."
48. "One of the commitments of marriage is mutual understanding."
49. "The best man is the one who is the best to his family and his wife."
50. "Respect the desires and accompany your wife and children. Because they are the ones who have the most right to your kindness."
Those are 50 words of heartache because of a father, representing the sad feelings of a child and a wife. These words can be a valuable lesson for you about the destruction of a family's heart when they hurt each other's feelings.
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Disclaimer: This translation from Bahasa Indonesia to English has been generated by Artificial Intelligence.