First Time Dating? Prepare These Things So That He/She Feels Comfortable and Free from Red Flags

Kapanlagi.com - Some people say that the first date determines whether a relationship will progress to the next level or not. It seems that this is indeed true, as the first impression of each other is usually formed right after the first date. Now, what needs to be considered is how to make this first date leave a good impression and be free from red flags.

Apparently, the key to avoiding red flags during the first date is more about making each other comfortable when meeting. Although it seems trivial, sometimes this one thing is often overlooked. Therefore, to prevent him/her from feeling ill at ease, try implementing these things during the first date. What are they?

1. Show Your Best Appearance When Meeting Him/Her

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Before discussing personality, someone's first impression will be seen from their appearance. Considering this is the first date, try to show your best appearance when meeting him/her. It doesn't have to be with excessive makeup or too simple, but how can you look polite and neat, so that you feel comfortable to be seen.

In addition, don't just focus on clothes, but also pay attention to overall appearance. For example, for men, don't let your hair look messy, while for women, pay attention to nail cleanliness. Also, make sure to smell good, so that you can give the best impression when meeting each other for the first time.

2. Try to Be On Time, Don't Be Late for the First Date!

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First impressions can also be determined by how you value time. If you have agreed to meet at 10 in the morning, don't be late for various reasons on your first date. For people who are very disciplined, being late for an appointment can be considered a red flag! Therefore, make sure to arrive early, at least 30 minutes before the appointment time. Moreover, arriving on time for the first date will also give the impression of how serious and enthusiastic you are to meet him/her. If he/she feels comfortable from the first meeting, usually he/she will be interested in continuing the conversation for a long time.

3. Stop Playing with Your Phone! Make Interesting and Memorable Conversations

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It can be said that this is one of the red flags that must be avoided on the first date. No matter how busy you are, make sure not to play with your phone on the first date. It would be better to put your phone in your bag or pocket first. Because being too busy playing with your phone will create an impression that you don't appreciate your conversation partner or him/her.

On the other hand, since the first acquaintance, you can immediately continue by opening a conversation with interesting things. Create a balanced conversation. So, don't just talk about things you like or things he/she doesn't understand, so he/she just responds with more silence. Give him/her a chance to tell his/her own story by asking about things he/she likes too. If both can listen and tell stories comfortably, the introduction process can be more enjoyable and memorable.

4. Being Friendly and Knowing Various Limits Will Be a Plus

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Although you are comfortable talking to each other, still maintain your attitude during the first date to avoid red flags. Be friendly and polite, so that your conversation partner can also respect you. In addition, know what boundaries can be discussed with him/her during the meeting. It would be better if you have found out beforehand before the first date.

Avoid common behaviors that are inappropriate during the first date based on social norms in Indonesia, such as physical touching, especially excessive touching or directing conversations that smell of sex. Those are very red flags! In addition, don't talk about your past lovers or him/her until talking about exes, because that is also considered a red flag on the first date.

5. Don't Just Enjoy the Entertainment, Invite Him/Her to Eat First

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Having fun chatting and enjoying various entertainments, such as watching movies, is certainly enjoyable when going on a first date with someone. However, don't just have fun and forget to invite them to eat. Although it may seem trivial, this can be a red flag for some people on a first date. Therefore, don't hesitate to invite your crush to eat, without having to be asked by them first.

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