Kapanlagi.com - Fanny Ghassani is one of the people who is in a long distance relationship (LDR) with her husband, Erwan Agustian Priyambudi. Fanny, who works in the entertainment industry, lives in Jakarta, while her husband is in Bali.
Fanny and Erwan have been married since 2017 and have been living LDR for 7 years. Their relationship is still going strong and can be said to be far from any negative rumors.
1. Tips for Household Harmony
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The 33-year-old woman revealed tips for household harmony with her husband, living in a long-distance relationship. There are several factors that LDR couples should maintain according to Fanny.
"Standards, trust, commitment, communication. If there's a breakdown, communication is important for discussion, two-way, listening to each other's grievances," said Fanny when met in the Mampang area, South Jakarta, recently.
"Commitment and trust go hand in hand. We must be able to maintain our partner's trust, keep our commitment, and not betray their trust," Fanny added.
2. Communication is Very Important
In maintaining a household, Fanny emphasizes that even in a long-distance relationship, communication is crucial. In fact, every couple must listen to each other's grievances.
"The first communication is not just talking, but listening to each other. Not being closed off or just answering yes. We can talk until falling asleep," said Fanny.
3. Understanding Husband
Fanny said that Erwan is a typical understanding husband. Even though he doesn't understand when she complains about work, her husband still remains a good listener.
"My husband is also understanding, I complain about work for just an hour and even though the answer is just a nod at least he listens," she said.
4. Commitment to Partner
Fanny tries her best to balance it by also being a good listener when her husband has problems at work.
"My husband talks and discusses work, I can help with the discussion. We try our best to always commit to respecting, loving, and caring for each other without damaging the trust given," Fanny explained.
5. Mutual Trust
Indeed, according to Fanny, trust is the most important key in maintaining a long-distance relationship. They also know their respective roles in the household and prioritize them.
"If trust is broken, the feeling won't be the same as before. My husband and I are not possessive, so we are relaxed. We have each other but it doesn't mean we expect him to prioritize us all the time," she said.
"There are times when we have to prioritize work and family, so we guarantee that we will always be by each other's side no matter the condition and situation," she concluded.
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Disclaimer: This translation from Bahasa Indonesia to English has been generated by Artificial Intelligence.