Already Opened Heart, Aura Kasih Doesn't Want to Date Just for Lust

Kapanlagi.com - Aura Kasih is still comfortable being a widow since her divorce from Eryck Amaral in April 2021. However, it doesn't mean that Aura Kasih is traumatized to rebuild a household.

She admits that she still needs attention from a man. Therefore, she has also opened her heart to men who try to approach her. However, she remains selective in finding a partner.

"It's a need, we also need to be cared for, we need to be loved. If I open my heart, but now I have to be more selective," said Aura Kasih when met in the Kalibata area, South Jakarta, on Monday (10/7).

1. Not Interested in Casual Dating Just for Lust

Aura Kasih at Ummi Pipik's religious gathering © KapanLagi.com/Muhammad Akrom Sukarya

Having a child, Aura Kasih realizes that now is not the time for casual dating that is solely driven by lust.

“I also don't want (to date) just for lust. Whoever approaches me, I always say, 'If you just want to fool around, don't, it's not me, it's better to go somewhere else.' If the person is unclear, I don't want it either, I think it's not good to have many sins,” Aura Kasih firmly stated.

2. Looking for a Serious Man

Aura Kasih at Ummi Pipik's religious gathering © KapanLagi.com/Muhammad Akrom Sukarya

If there is a man who approaches her, Aura Kasih has always questioned their commitment to the relationship from the beginning. She also never forgets to pray to find a good partner.

“If you want to be serious, let's be together, what is the commitment like. So from the beginning, I have made it clear like that, maybe the guy is also scared. If the guy is just fooling around, of course, he would be scared. But I am confident, I ask Allah to bring me someone good,” she expressed.

3. The Process of Taaruf?

Aura Kasih at Ummi Pipik's religious gathering © KapanLagi.com/Muhammad Akrom Sukarya

In searching for a life partner, Aura Kasih does not have to go through the process of taaruf. For her, the most important thing is the seriousness of the man.

“I can't do taaruf. But if someone approaches me in the beginning and asks what I want, whether it's just for fun or serious, there are many options given by Allah, we just have to choose whether it's halal or not, we just choose,” she concluded.

(kpl/rhm/ums)