Ardhito Pramono Admits to Sacrificing His Marriage for His Girlfriend, Only to Be Cheated On

Ardhito revealed that he knew he was being cheated on by a man who was also his girlfriend's boyfriend. At that time, his girlfriend was still in college, as was her younger lover.

"So there was my ex's lover. So at that time I was dating, then I got cheated on. My ex cheated. Then the lover approached me, and he said, 'Dhito, you sacrifice your marriage for this person. Do you know that actually, in one of the cities where he is studying, he has many boyfriends, and I (the man who met Dhito) am one of them. That's it,'" said Ardhito. "At that moment, I was trying to accept it. Like, seriously? Is that true? Is it really? Then I called his dad, and his dad tried to calm me down and everything, at that time," he continued.

Ardhito admitted that he sacrificed his marriage for that unnamed figure. However, it turned out that after he sacrificed his marriage and then divorced, Ardhito was actually cheated on by his girlfriend. "Because I sacrificed my marriage, one of the reasons was because of that (the girlfriend). Because I just realized that since I was a child, I was never given love by my parents, you know. So it’s like I was never given love and affection," said Dhito.

"That’s why when my ex-wife, who was raised with love and affection from her family, gave that (love) to me, I still always questioned whether this was really love that she was giving me. Because I had never felt that," explained Dhito.

Ardhito then realized that all this time the love given to him by Jeanette was very sincere. However, he only realized it after everything was too late. "I only knew it was sincere after I looked at the archive of my second account, you know, I opened it. Wow, she gave her life, my ex-wife, she gave her life to me. But at that time, because I had never felt loved, I kept questioning it," explained Ditho.

Ardhito also admitted that he suffers from Borderline Personality Disorder, which makes him give his love to others besides his wife. "And I have a habit of helping others first, rather than fulfill myself. It's like I prefer to pour into someone else's glass first, even though my own glass is empty. And there was one person at that time, where I felt like you were really pitiful, you never felt affection and love, which I also never felt. So I gave that (love) to someone else, and I forgot the person who truly loved me," explained Dhito.

Ardhito then mentioned that now his love for Jeanneta has run out. He currently admits that he does not have a special relationship with anyone and still cries for his ex in public when reminiscing about their time together that ended in 2023. "(Heartbreak) It seems like it won't go away, bro. It seems like I will be alone forever. It seems because my love is used up on Jean. My love is used up on my ex-wife. So how can I love someone else, it won't be the same as (Jean). Realizing that I should love her again," explained Ardhito.

Ardhito's statement in this podcast has sparked a lot of discussions among netizens online. Speculations about who is close to Ardhito that led him to sacrifice his marriage with Jean are now widely discussed on various social media platforms. However, Ardhito himself has not provided any clues about the person who has caused him to sacrifice his marriage.