Ardhito Pramono Admits to Sacrificing His Marriage for His Girlfriend, Only to Be Cheated On

Ardhito revealed that he found out he was being cheated on by a man who was also his girlfriend's boyfriend. At that time, his girlfriend was still in college, along with her younger lover.

"So there was my ex's affair with someone. At that time, I was in a relationship, and then I ended up cheating. My ex cheated. Then the person he cheated with approached me, and he said, 'Dhito, you sacrifice your marriage for this person. Do you know that actually, in one of the cities where he is studying, he has many girlfriends, and I (the guy who met Dhito) am one of them. That's how it is,' said Ardhito. "At that moment, I was trying to accept it. Like, seriously? Is that true? Is it really? Then I called his dad, and his dad tried to calm me down and everything at that time," he continued.

Ardhito admitted that he sacrificed his marriage for that unnamed person. However, it turned out that after he sacrificed his marriage and then got divorced, Ardhito was actually cheated on by his girlfriend. "Because I sacrificed my marriage, one of the reasons was because of her (the girlfriend). Because I just realized that since I was little, I was never given love by my parents, you know. So it feels like I was never given love and affection," said Dhito.

"That's why when my ex-wife, who was raised with love and affection from her family, gave that (love) to me, I always wondered if this was really the love given to me. Because I have never felt that," explained Dhito.

Ardhito then realized that the love given to him by Jeanette was very sincere. However, he only realized it after everything was too late. "I only knew it was sincere after I looked at the archive of my second account, you know, I opened it. Wow, she gave her life, my ex-wife, gave her life to me. But at that moment, because I had never felt loved, I kept questioning it," explained Ditho.

Ardhito also admitted that he suffers from Borderline Personality Disorder, which makes him give his love to others besides his wife. "And I have a habit of helping others first, rather than fulfilling myself. Like I prefer to pour into someone else's glass first, even though my glass is empty. And there was one person who at that time, I felt like you were really pitiful, you never experienced affection and love, which I also never felt. So I gave that (love) to someone else, and I forgot the person who truly loved me," explained Dhito.

Ardhito then mentioned that his love for Jeanneta has now run out. He currently admits that he has no special relationship with anyone and still cries over his ex in public when reminiscing about their time together that ended in 2023. "(Heartbreak) It seems like it won't go away, man. It seems like I'll be alone forever. It seems like my love is spent on Jean. My love is spent on my ex-wife. So how can I love someone else? It won't be the same as (Jean). Realizing that I should love her again," explained Ardhito.

Ardhito's statement in this podcast has since sparked discussions among netizens online. Speculations about who is close to Ardhito, leading him to sacrifice his marriage with Jean, are now widely discussed across various social media platforms. However, Ardhito himself has not provided any clues about the person who made him sacrifice his marriage.