Chronology of DJ Panda's Introduction to Erika Carlina Until Pregnancy, Starting from TikTok

"Previously, I apologize to the parties involved in this matter... As a man, I have taken responsibility. So at least allow me to recount the chronology and clarify a few things," said DJ Panda on Monday, (21/7).

According to DJ Panda, he met Erika through a TikTok live broadcast, starting with exchanging gifts and then moving on to personal communication via DM. After losing contact for a while, they resumed intense communication in November 2024 and agreed to meet. The meeting took place at a billiard place in Senayan City, which then continued to karaoke and other entertainment venues. Because he was too drunk, Erika asked DJ Panda to stay over at her house.

After that meeting, their communication became closer. Erika even followed DJ Panda to Batam when he performed there. However, after some time, DJ Panda felt that Erika was starting to distance herself. "Suddenly she became indifferent... I tried to ask why, and she replied it was nothing. I tried to chat again, but eventually, there was no response," he said. Because he did not receive any certainty, he sent a long message that ended in an argument.

The peak occurred on December 30, 2024, when Erika called DJ Panda and informed him that she was pregnant. “She stated that she was pregnant. Because I was shocked and still had work to do, I said, ‘Okay, which hospital are you in? I will come. But I want to finish my performance tomorrow first, is that okay?’. ‘It's okay,’” he recalled. DJ Panda immediately informed his parents and they together met Erika to show good intentions.

They tried to maintain a relationship after that, but often argued over trivial matters like charger cables. One of the other conflicts arose just because DJ Panda wanted to wear shorts. “He said to me, ‘Do you know who you’re walking with? How could you wear shorts?’. I was very hurt, but I tried to think positively, maybe it was because of the hormones of a pregnant woman,” she said.

In the midst of the tension, DJ Panda received news that the ring he ordered was ready. He hoped to lighten the mood by showing the ring to Erika. However, his hopes were dashed when Erika expressed that she wanted to end the relationship. “She said, ‘I feel like I can’t continue this relationship... If possible, let’s not let anyone know who this kid's father is,’” said DJ Panda.

Hearing that, DJ Panda decided to leave Erika's house and respect her decision. He also stopped contacting Erika. “I called my parents, I informed them. From there I never chatted again... because I respected her words at that moment,” he said.

However, everything changed when DJ Panda's name was mentioned after Erika appeared on Deddy Corbuzier's podcast. Feeling cornered, he tried to contact Erika personally for clarification. “I tried to chat with Erika, ‘Can I call you? I want to clarify, but this is just between you and me’. Until now, there has been no response,” concluded DJ Panda.