Dede Sunandar Still Wants to Reconcile for the Children, Karen Hertatum Firm on Divorce

Kapanlagi.com - Comedian Dede Sunandar now has to face the bitter reality regarding the continuation of his marriage to Karen Hertatum. Although he is being sued for divorce, Dede openly expresses his desire to maintain their sacred bond. This decision is made by Dede for the future and mental well-being of their three children, who are now his top priority.

However, Karen Hertatum is firmly set on separating due to deep trauma. Even though his wife is insistent on parting ways, the 33-year-old man claims he is still trying to find a peaceful solution.

1. Dede Sunandar is Going Through a Divorce

Dede Sunandar accompanied by Vicky Praetyo/KapanLagi.com/Sahal Fadhli

"Yes, from BSA's side, they are helping, right? Helping in legal matters, because Dede really doesn't know about the law. After leaving Star Media Nusantara, Dede no longer has management, so the lawyer or legal support is probably through... well, through here," said Dede Sunandar when met in the Sunter area, North Jakarta, Thursday (11/6/2026).

The couple's household conflict reportedly stemmed from allegations of infidelity and domestic violence. Karen even mentioned that her husband had verbally pronounced a triple talak (divorce) to her.

2. Dede Sunandar's Reasons for Maintaining the Marriage

Dede revealed that his main reason for holding on is for the future of their three children. He feels that as a parent, he still has a great responsibility to rectify the mistakes that have occurred in the past.

Dede explained that his biggest motivation right now is to work hard for his children, even though his name is viewed negatively by the public. He believes that poor management of himself has contributed to his downfall.

"Actually, it's just one thing, the children, Bang, just the children. Our household can be improved again. Maybe in the media, Dede’s name has already been tarnished, especially on TV. But with Dede's way of working hard, no matter in whatever field, insyaallah, with halal sustenance, insyaallah there will be blessings," he said.

3. The Child Already Knows About His Parents' Divorce

Dede Sunandar talks about his household/KapanLagi.com/Sahal Fadhli

The man who started his career as a cleaning service realized that the digital footprint regarding his divorce had begun to be known by his eldest child. This triggered deep concern because the child started receiving questions from his school friends.

Dede continues to explain to his eldest son, Arjuna, about the condition of his parents' relationship, which is not going well. He remains committed to funding his children's education as high as possible, regardless of what happens.

"As for Arjuna, he is always brought along. Arjuna also knows, it's like this and that. 'Brother will come back,' I said. 'If you want to go to mom, dad will fund you,' I said, 'School as high as possible,'" he said.

4. Willing to Submit Administrative Documents for Divorce

Dede admitted he was willing to submit administrative documents such as the marriage book and family card because Karen had made up her mind to get a divorce. Ian handed over all legal matters to BSA Law Firm because he felt blind to the procedures in court.

"From Karen's side, maybe to the West Jakarta Court with her lawyer. I asked, 'Are you using a lawyer?' I said that. 'Yes, I am,' she said," he concluded.

5. QnA Household of Dede Sunandar

1. Have Dede Sunandar and Karen Hertatum officially divorced? Although Dede Sunandar has pronounced triple talak and both have agreed to separate, the divorce lawsuit has not yet been officially registered at the religious court.

2. Why does Karen Hertatum want a divorce from Dede Sunandar? Karen Hertatum can no longer maintain her household and wants to divorce immediately due to deep trauma from the domestic violence she experienced.

3. What was the reason for Dede Sunandar committing domestic violence against Karen Hertatum? Dede Sunandar admitted he was emotional because he did not like Karen's actions, which he claimed involved bringing a male friend to the house and drinking while Dede was out of town.

(kpl/aal/fbi)