Della Puspita Cancels Divorce and Gives Arman Wosi a Second Chance, Mentions 'Tobat Tomat'

"Its development is just waiting for God's will. Because, you know, from Arman's side, he is still asking for a chance because he feels guilty," said Della Puspita in the Tendean area, South Jakarta, on Wednesday (21/6/2026).

Della wants to ensure whether her husband can truly change over time. For her, Arman's past actions, such as expressing emotions by shouting and filing for divorce, are considered very excessive. She is now more cautious and continues to observe every development in her husband's behavior each day in much more depth.

"We'll see if over time he can change for the better. Because yesterday he was cursing, shouting, and there was a lawsuit like that, which for me at that time was already outrageous," said Della.

"So it's like setting a boundary so that he doesn't keep retreating, because it often happens like this. I made that statement so that he would just stop, if he really wants to end it, then just end it, you know. But it turns out my prediction was wrong, I thought he would be embarrassed to back down, but instead he made a video saying that he retracted his report," Della explained.

Although communication has started to improve, Della issued a strong warning regarding Arman's consistent behavior. She emphasized the term "tobat tomat" (which implies insincere repentance) to prevent the same mistakes from happening again. Della hopes there will be no more harsh treatment that hurts her feelings in their future household life.

"Little by little it seems he is giving freedom, yes, it's okay to go here and there. But let's see how long it lasts, the repentance shouldn't be insincere, it shouldn't be like that," Della Puspita asserted.

"The point is, never hurt someone if you don't want to be hurt, that's it. Never feel it if you don't want to be mistreated," concluded Della Puspita.