Former Transgender, Aby Respati Tells Bitter Experience of Being Rejected by Girlfriend's Parents

Kapanlagi.com - The name Aby Respati was once closely associated with Millendaru or also known as Millen Cyrus. At that time, both of them were in the spotlight because of their decision to appear as women.

Now Aby Respati has indeed chosen to return to being a real man. But that decision apparently did not make it easy for him to be accepted by others. Especially by the parents of the woman he is close to.

Aby then told one bitter experience about his love life when he was a guest star on the Bisik Bisik Tetangga show some time ago.

1. There is a Desire to Get Married

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For Aby, the desire to build a household has actually crossed his mind. However, it is not yet his main goal considering some unpleasant experiences he has had.

"Actually, I want to get married, but it seems like not yet. Because of the recent failure, getting married has not become a goal," he said as quoted from the Bisik Bisik Tetangga show uploaded on (17/3).

2. Afraid of the Prospective Partner's Parents

The intention to establish a serious relationship with someone is often abandoned by Aby when he recalls past failures. Moreover, the factor of his partner's parents who may not be able to accept his past.

"When there is a problem in a relationship, I think again that getting married is not a goal. It's harder now, thinking every time I get close, I'm afraid because of the parents," explained Aby.

3. Called Former Transgender

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One unforgettable experience for Aby is when he was called a former transgender by the parents of a girl he was close to.

"I was close to someone, and they said, 'Why are you close to a former transgender? It's not curable. Are you okay with your future child being like that?' And it was really said in front of me," recalled Millendaru's friend.

4. Ideal Woman Type

Now, Aby doesn't have extravagant requirements for the woman who will be his future partner. He only hopes to meet someone whose parents can accept Aby's past.

"The ideal woman type is someone whose parents can accept the past," he emphasized.

(kpl/lou)