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Household Tips for Longevity by Surya Saputra, Husband Needs 'Me Time'

Household Tips for Longevity by Surya Saputra, Husband Needs 'Me Time'

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Household Tips for Longevity by Surya Saputra, Husband Needs 'Me Time'

The household of Surya Saputra and Cynthia Lamusu, which has been running for over a decade, is often used as a role model by many. Far from negative gossip, this couple always appears affectionate and united on various occasions. However, Surya does not deny that friction and conflict are inevitable in every marriage.

The key to their harmony lies in their unique approach to problem-solving. Surya has a principle of choosing to step away for a moment when emotions are running high. For him, men need some time alone to calm their anger before discussing things rationally.

"So I always tell my wife, when I step out for a bit, it doesn't mean I don't want to resolve the issue. Sometimes men need to cool down their anger first. This is something that women sometimes don't understand," Surya explained in Kemang, South Jakarta, on Tuesday (30/12/2025).

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According to Surya, discussions held when emotions are high will only worsen the situation. He prefers to wait until the mood improves so that the conversation can be constructive and not hurt his partner with unnecessary harsh words.

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"It's better to talk calmly, constructively, like this and that. The problem is this, the solution is that. Right? So it's nicer for the women, isn't it? Yes or no? Compared to us getting angry and wasting negative energy," he added.

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Initially, Cynthia was confused by Surya's behavior, which seemed evasive. However, over time, the wife began to understand and accept Surya's way of handling household conflicts.

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"I always say, 'Honey, that's enough. It seems like we're not finding common ground here. Let's talk tomorrow, or later tonight, or in the morning. So we can both be calm first. You calm down, I calm down, then we discuss it,'" Surya explained.

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Open communication and mutual understanding form a strong foundation for their relationship. Surya believes that every problem can be solved if both parties are willing to listen to each other and lower their egos.

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The background of problems in a household is often triggered by poor communication during emotional times. Surya's tips can be an inspiration for young couples in managing conflicts.

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Their harmony is further completed by the presence of their child. Surya is committed to continuously maintaining the integrity of his family with love and patience.