Kiky Saputri Shares Her VOC-style Speaking, Husband Must Be Patient with Her High Tone

Kapanlagi.com - Entering their third year of marriage, the couple Kiky Saputri and M. Khairi are becoming more united. However, behind this harmony, Kiky does not deny the challenges in household communication. This famous comedian admits to having a loud and assertive speaking style, which she refers to as "VOC education".

Kiky realizes that her habit of speaking loudly and directly often triggers friction. She is used to being the eldest child who manages her younger siblings and leads work teams, so her tone often sounds commanding.

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1. Keep Reminding Myself

"I was raised by the VOC, you know. Usually, it's 'Waaaaa', that's a bit (harsh), so until now in my third year, I keep reminding myself: calm down, slowly, don't rush," she said when met in the Warung Jati area, South Jakarta, Tuesday (06/01/2026).

2. Don't Want to Hurt My Partner's Feelings

Facing a husband with a calmer character, Kiky continues to learn to lower her voice intonation. She doesn't want that habit to hurt her partner's feelings. Khairi is also required to better understand and get used to his wife's explosive speaking style.

3. Learning and Getting Used to It

"This is my husband, the head of the family, it can't be. I'm used to having a team or regular employees saying 'this is how it is', it can't be, that's very different. So I'm still learning, Mas Khairi also has to get his ears used to hearing 'Waaaaa'," Kiky added.

4. The Key to Harmony

The key to their harmony is open communication. Both routinely take time to discuss each other's shortcomings and strengths, as well as the things they dislike about each other's communication style.

5. The Shield of Marriage

"We discuss, 'I don’t like it when you communicate like this', Kiky also 'I don’t like your way of communicating like this'. So that’s perhaps one of the shields of marriage," Khairi explained.

6. Being Open with Each Other

Realizing this, Kiky continues to try to lower her tone to maintain her husband's feelings, who has a calmer character. Together with Khairi, they choose open communication as the main key to their marriage, mutually expressing what they like and dislike.

7. Hopes for the Household

With mutual understanding and efforts to improve themselves, Kiky and Khairi hope their household can continue to be lasting and harmonious.

(kpl/aal/rsp)