Not Strong Enough to Carry for Long, Mpok Alpa's Husband Remembers the Deceased on the First Birthday of the Twins

Kapanlagi.com - Jakarta – A touching atmosphere enveloped the celebration of the first birthday of twins Raffi Ahmad Darmadina and Raffa Ahmad Darmadina on Tuesday, October 7, 2025. Ajie Darmaji, the husband of the late comedian Mpok Alpa, could not hold back his sadness and tears while reminiscing about his wife's struggle to give birth to their two children.

This happy moment felt bittersweet as it was celebrated without the presence of Mpok Alpa, who passed away on August 15, 2025. Ajie Darmaji expressed that this moment was very emotional for him, recalling Mpok Alpa's struggle during the birth of the twins.

1. Not Strong Enough to Hold for Long

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Exactly one year after the departure of his beloved wife during childbirth, Ajie admitted that he is still not fully strong. He even cannot bear to look at and hold the twins for a long time because he always remembers the struggles of the late wife.

"I can't hold the kids for too long like that because it also makes me sore. So, my sadness when I see the children reminds me of the late wife," said Ajie Darmaji when met in the area of Jalan Warung Jati Barat, South Jakarta, on Tuesday (07/10/2025).

2. Haunting Memories and Feelings of Loss

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He emphasized that this does not mean he does not love his children. However, the shadows of memories and feelings of loss are still very strong for him.

"Because I am not, not strong enough to see them. The longest I can stay like that is 5 minutes or 10 minutes," he continued.

3. Can't Sleep

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The night before the twins' birthday, Ajie admitted he couldn't sleep. His mind went back to the moment a year ago when he anxiously accompanied Mpok Alpa at the hospital before the cesarean operation.

"I was really restless last night. How could it be, Allah, last year on the 7th, on the night of the 7th we were in the ward because the next morning there was going to be a cesarean operation," he recalled.

4. Remembering the Birth Moment

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In that moment, he remembered the extraordinary sacrifice of his wife who was willing to risk her life for the safety of the twins.

"Teach me about this mother's struggle. 'What's important is that they are safe, it's okay, as long as this child is safe,' like that. Amazing, extraordinary for the late one," he said softly.

5. Mpok Alpa's Sacrifice for Her Beloved Child

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Ajie praises Mpok Alpa's extraordinary struggle. Despite being weak due to cancer, Mpok Alpa continues to prioritize the safety of her children. Even though her heart is still burdened with sorrow, Ajie is determined to always show happiness in front of her children.

6. QnA on the First Birthday of Mpok Alpa's Twins

1. Who is Mpok Alpa's husband? Mpok Alpa's husband is Ajie Darmaji.

2. When is the first birthday of the twins celebrated? The first birthday of the twins is celebrated on October 7, 2025.

3. What does Ajie Darmaji remember about the twins' birthday? Ajie remembers Mpok Alpa's struggle during the birth of the twins.

(kpl/aal/fbi)