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Reasons Ruben Onsu and Sarwendah Failed Mediation, Minola Sebayang Highlights Deed 39

Reasons Ruben Onsu and Sarwendah Failed Mediation, Minola Sebayang Highlights Deed 39

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Reasons Ruben Onsu and Sarwendah Failed Mediation, Minola Sebayang Highlights Deed 39

The failure of mediation between Ruben Onsu and Sarwendah is not only about feelings, but also about compliance with the law. Minola Sebayang emphasizes the importance of respecting legal documents that have been consciously created.

Minola explains that in law there is a principle of public propriety that must be adhered to. Changing rules unilaterally based on one's own mindset is considered a violation of that norm.

The Ruben party feels aggrieved because Sarwendah wants to change the contents of Deed 39 solely based on her personal desires. In fact, the deed was made in front of a notary without any coercion or threat from any party.

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"This is not a loud voice, not a booming voice, but this is about the principle of general propriety. Yes. In law, there is also what is called the principle of general propriety that applies. This means there are things that must not be violated, the norm is like that," said Minola Sebayang when met at the South Jakarta District Court on Wednesday (19/08/2026).

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"What makes this agreement need to be changed? Just because of the desire of one person, right? So, the mediator cannot force it, because they are not the one judging this matter," explained Minola.

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Although Sarwendah's side presented many reasons based on health laws, Ruben's side also had a strong legal basis. This legal argument battle is what makes mediation fail to reach a solution.

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"The principle of appropriateness means you can't just change something in the middle of the road based solely on your desires and thought patterns, even if you present many reasons based on the laws you propose," said Minola.

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Minola concluded that the mediation failed because the Sarwendah party was unwilling to implement what was stipulated in Deed 39. They continued to impose conditions, while Ruben's side demanded the freedom to meet with the children as per the original contract.

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"Thus, the mediation failed. But the mediation failed because the other side did not want to realize what was stipulated in Deed 39, which states 2-3 days of meetings without conditions; they wanted it with conditions," concluded Minola.

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