The Love Story of Ongky Alexander and Paula Ayustina that Shook the '90s, Accusations of Gold Digger - Ended in Divorce

Kapanlagi.com - The marriage of Ongky Alexander and Paula Ayustina Saroinsong was the most sensational news in 1995. At that time, Ongky's career in the film industry was at its peak.

Ongky's decision to marry Paula was like a thunderbolt in broad daylight for his fans. At that time, it was known that Ongky had been dating Paramitha Rusady, a top Indonesian actress who was also popular, for 4 years.

Many thought that Ongky would marry Paramitha. But fate had other plans...

1. Status and Age of Paula

Ongky and Paula © surya.com

As soon as Ongky announced that he was going to marry Paula Ayustina, all eyes were on him. Paula's status as a childless widow shocked many of Ongky's fans.

Furthermore, Paula's age, which is 10 years older than Ongky, raised various questions. Ongky got married at the age of 30, while Paula was already 40 at that time.

Many wondered what made Ongky choose Paula and leave Paramitha, but the answer has not been found until now.

2. Paula, a Wealthy Businesswoman, and Ongky's Accusation of Materialism

Ongky Alexander © fashion magazine

Ongky Alexander's decision to get married made the public curious about Paula. At that time, Paula was a high-ranking executive at the Cendana family-owned company, PT. Citra Lamtorogung Persada.

When Paula married Ongky, she held the position of marketing director at the company. She was also known to have several businesses and was wealthy.

It was Paula's status that led to Ongky being labeled as a materialistic guy. He was accused of marrying Paula for her wealth, not out of love. However, Ongky remained silent regarding these accusations.

3. Ongky Retires from the Indonesian Entertainment World

Ongky Alexander © instagram/ferdy_tahier

After marrying Paula, Ongky left his career in the entertainment world. He disappeared without a trace.

There were rumors that Paula forbade Ongky from acting, but he denied it. Paula admitted that she allowed Ongky to act, but it was her husband who was unwilling to do so.

However, Ongky firmly retired from the entertainment world, especially after their child was born. His name faded over time, but he was never truly forgotten by his fans.

Recently, the reason behind Ongky's disappearance from the entertainment world was revealed. In an interview with Ferdy Tahier, Ongky revealed his reason for no longer being an actor after getting married.

"I disappeared because I wanted to focus on my family, especially after having a child. I wanted to be a good father. I wanted to focus on my family, wife, and child at that time. In our industry, it's like a temptation. Rumors and gossip are harsh, and they affect the child. I really protected and made sure there were no whispers or rumors. Well, you know, in our industry, there's always something being brought up," said Ongky.

4. Rumor Heboh

Ongky Alexander © instagram/lambe_turah

During his marriage with Paula, there were hardly any scandalous news about Ongky's life. His decision to remain silent about all the rumors circulating about his choice to marry Paula caused the gossip to subside on its own.

Ongky and Paula's life was peaceful, without gossip for about 20 years. Then, in 2015, a surprising rumor emerged. The Lambe Turah account uploaded a photo of Ongky with another woman, not Paula Ayustina.

For the first time, Ongky and Paula's marriage was hit with gossip. Rumors of Ongky's alleged affair started to surface. Who is the woman embraced by Ongky and whose photo was uploaded on the Lambe Turah account?

Ongky remained silent again, but then news spread that Paula filed for divorce in the Religious Court. The rumor of a third party causing the divorce also emerged, but it was never confirmed by Paula and Ongky.

5. Ongky and Paula's Divorce

Ongky Alexander © instagram/titiek_soeharto

After going through several court hearings, Ongky and Paula were officially divorced in 2016. The reason for their separation was not mentioned, and the speculation of a third party involvement was denied.

At that time, both Ongky and Paula only stated that they separated due to incompatibility. Despite Paula being diagnosed with breast cancer, Ongky still decided to divorce his wife.

After divorcing Ongky, Paula continued her cancer treatment accompanied by Sasqia, their only child. The late Julia Perez once met Paula in Singapore and mentioned that Ongky's ex-wife was in good condition and bravely undergoing her treatment.

6. Starting From Scratch

© instagram.com/ongkyalexander.official

The divorce from Paula made Ongky lose everything. He had to start from scratch and it was difficult for him to return to the entertainment industry at the age of 50.

"At one point, my balance was zero, absolutely zero. When I finished the divorce, I started from scratch," said Ongky to Ferdy Tahier.

Feeling that it was impossible to return to the entertainment world, Ongky decided to focus on becoming an entrepreneur. He chose to be a coal mining entrepreneur and is still pursuing it until now.

7. Already Married Again

Ongky and wife's family © instagram.com/zahranichlany

Ongky's life slowly changed and now he has found love again. Secretly, Ongky has already married a beautiful woman whose identity is still unknown.

Ongky's marriage took place several years ago, but he only announced it on social media in 2023. Ongky's new wife has been accepted by their only child, Sasqia.

Although not much information can be obtained, it is known that Ongky's new wife comes from a wealthy family. One of the wife's relatives is Atilah Soeryadjaja, who is the daughter of Mangkunegara VII's descendant and her husband is the son of the owner of the Astra group.

Meanwhile, there is no news that Paula Ayustina has remarried. When she attended Sasqia's wedding on May 17, 2024, Paula appeared alone. However, her relationship with Ongky seems to have improved and they accompanied Sasqia together.

(kpl/phi)