Touching Message from BCL on Wedding Day, a Story About Pain that Can't Disappear until the Presence of Tiko Aryawardhana

Kapanlagi.com - Bunga Citra Lestari officially remarried after the departure of the late Ashraf Sinclair in 2020. The mother of one child was officially married to a man named Tiko Aryawardhana today, Saturday (2/12) in Bali. Their second marriage went smoothly and intimately attended by family and close friends.

The relationship between BCL and Tiko can be said to have surprised many people, as it was kept far from public knowledge. Only recently, the news of their marriage was suddenly detected by the public.

Now that they are officially married, BCL is no longer hesitant to publicize her relationship with Tiko. For example, on this wedding day, the singer of Cinta Sejati also uploaded a prewed video with Tiko on her official Instagram account, @itsmebcl.

In the two-minute video, BCL expressed a deep and meaningful message. There are two main things she discussed. Read more below..

1. The Pain that Will Never Disappear

Video Prewed Bunga Citra Lestari (Credit Photo: instagram.com/itsmebcl)

First, BCL talked about the pain of losing Ashraf Sinclair. As we know, the 40-year-old woman was deeply devastated and drowned in profound sadness due to the sudden loss of her husband.

"Looking back, feeling it again. When I asked, does happiness exist? Yes, day by day passes, little by little I adapt to the pain. Living with the awareness that this pain will not go away. It will remain there and stay there," BCL expressed in her video post.

For BCL, the pain of Ashraf's departure will never be able to disappear, even though she has found a new companion now. This shows how great her love for the deceased was during his lifetime.

2. Sharing Pain

Bunga Citra Lestari's Prewed Video (Photo Credit: instagram.com/itsmebcl)

Pain does not mean you cannot move on. BCL then found a new man named Tiko Aryawardhana who also had a similar past. Yes, Tiko was previously a widower with three children.

"And at a certain time, a man appeared. This man who also carries pain on his own journey. Time after time passed, the pain started to be shared and I no longer felt alone. Laughter started to appear and I deserve to have it," continued BCL.

BCL and Tiko are both committed to supporting each other in their past pain. At least, they now have a place to share their pain, so they don't have to feel it alone.

3. Light in the Darkness

Video Prewed Bunga Citra Lestari (Credit Photo: instagram.com/itsmebcl)

At the end of the video, BCL reveals the important role of Tiko, who is like a light in the midst of her dark life. Now BCL's smile can start to blossom again after being trapped by the pain of losing Ashraf Sinclair for so long.

"The pain will always be there, but this man has brought back my smile. He has taken me to a place that I never dared to dream of before. To go to a place called home. You are my good friend, the light in my darkness, my partner, my love. Thank you for allowing me to be myself, thank you for loving my pain, thank you for loving me as I am," BCL concluded.

(kpl/gtr)