Vicky Prasetyo Helps Cover Meal Costs for Dede Sunandar's Children Every Friday

Kapanlagi.com - Vicky Prasetyo shows his solidarity as a friend by accompanying Dede Sunandar, who is facing divorce issues. The former husband of Angel Lelga provides guidance and legal assistance so that Dede does not lose direction in facing the demands from Karen Hertatum.

"Well, we are friends, so Dede did share his feelings and other things, and we were together while doing activities, but also consulting regarding other issues. That's really it, it's that simple," said Vicky Prasetyo when met in the Sunter area, North Jakarta, Thursday (11/6/2026).

1. The Escalating Household Conflict

Vicky Prasetyo and Dede Sunandar © KapanLagi.com/Sahal Fadhli

The conflict between Dede and Karen has indeed escalated after repeated allegations of infidelity against Dede since the beginning of their marriage. This issue then spilled over into the divorce administrative matters requested by the wife.

2. Not Wanting to Interfere in Household Matters

Vicky admitted that he did not want to interfere too much in the private matters of his friend's household. He only acted as a listener and a link between Dede and the legal team from BSA Law Firm.

3. The Urge to Help a Friend

Vicky Prasetyo Sitting Next to Dede Sunandar © KapanLagi.com/Sahal Fadhli

The man who calls himself The Gladiator feels the need to help because he knows both Karen and Dede well. He sees that there is still communication happening despite the significant issues they are facing.

"Well, we don’t really go too far in terms of knowing the privacy within the household. But I also know Karen, know Dede's wife, and so on. Everything is pretty normal in terms of communication, as is usual in households, there may be some issues we face. Then Dede confided, asking for direction from someone who has lost their way before," he said.

4. Financial Support Every Friday

In addition to providing legal guidance, Vicky secretly gives financial support to Dede's family every Friday. He often visits Dede's home just to ensure that his friend's children's food needs are met.

5. The Philosophy of Vicky Prasetyo

Vicky Prasetyo, Friend of Dede Sunandar © KapanLagi.com/Sahal Fadhli

Vicky shares a philosophy about who will remain when someone is falling into despair. For him, helping a friend in difficulty is a form of caring without always needing to be exposed to the public.

"There is a philosopher from Greece named Belmu Sempak Superman. He once said, he indeed asked Gedi Tato Persulit us to remember, because at the moment you fall, there are three things, De. What are they? Who pushed you to fall? Who is there when you fall? And who wakes you up when you fall? That's it," he said.

6. Charged on Blessed Friday When Forgot

Vicky laughed when Dede reminded him of the assistance as "Blessed Friday" when he had forgotten to give it. Despite the difficult situation, he believes that Dede can survive this household storm.

"Sometimes I like to be quiet like that, just approach him and the important thing is that it’s used for the kids’ meals, snacks, whatever. But every Friday I don’t say anything to him. But he seems to be waiting, when Friday comes I forget, 'Hey this is Friday, sir, this is a blessed Friday, sir' really," he said.

(kpl/aal/rsp)