Cici Paramida Remembers Her Mother's Last Message Before Passing, Wants Family to Gather in Ramadan

Kapanlagi.com - Sad news comes from the dangdut family of Cici Paramida and Siti KDI. Their mother, Haji Roesnaedi, passed away on Thursday (17/4/2025) and was buried the following day at TPU Budi Dharma, Semper, North Jakarta.

Siti is grateful that the burial process went smoothly despite a little rain. She also expressed her gratitude for the support of the extended family who have been present since her mother fell ill until her passing.

"Yes, alhamdulillah we have just finished burying our beloved mother and everything went smoothly, it was escorted from the house, then prayed at the mosque near the house, alhamdulillah everything went well," said Siti at TPU Budi Dharma, Semper, North Jakarta, Friday (18/4/2025).

"There were also relatives who attended, they have been faithfully coming since the beginning of my mother’s illness, and until her last moments, they could be present again. I am grateful because there was a little drizzle earlier, alhamdulillah everything went smoothly," she said.

1. Memories with the Late Mother

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Cici Paramida holds many memories with her late mother. She recalls how her mother always wanted to make her children happy through simple things.

"If we talk about memories of mother, there are many. She was someone whose heart really wanted to bring joy and happiness to others, so when others felt happy, she could feel satisfied," said Cici.

2. The Deceased's Habits During Her Lifetime

One form of the mother's affection was cooking her children's favorite meals at home. This habit became an unforgettable expression of love for Cici.

"For example, when we were at home, mother always made our favorite food so that we would eat her cooking, not just snack outside. We were always happy to eat mother's food, but we didn't want to burden her. But it turned out that it was mother's happiness," she explained.

3. The Last Message from Mother

As the last Ramadan together approached, the mother still managed to express her wish for the family to stay united. For Cici, it was the last message that left a lasting impression in her memory.

"Mother usually wants us to gather together during Ramadan, she wants her children to be together, to break the fast together, to have sahur together, because we are still in Jakarta, so being together with her grandchildren makes her very happy. 'What do you want to make, what do you want to make?'," said Cici.

4. Wanting to Do the Best

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Siti also added that she feels she has not yet repaid all of her mother's kindness. She admitted that she always wants to do the best for her mother, especially during the memorable moments of Ramadan.

"As a child, I definitely do not feel satisfied. In terms of being devoted to parents, no matter how long, of course, a mother is a mother who has taken care of us since we were little, there is really no such thing as enough, we always want the best, we want to do the best, but it always feels lacking," said Siti.

(kpl/far/rsp)