Married for 25 Years, Inul Daratista Admits that her Marriage is Lacking Romance

Kapanlagi.com - Living in a marriage for 25 years and making it last is not easy. This is something that is still felt by the famous dangdut singer, Inul Daratista and her husband, Adam Suseno. 

Through her Instagram, Inul admits that there is no romance in her marriage with Adam at all. In fact, since dating, they have been arguing more than being affectionate. 

"When we were dating, we used to argue a lot, and the romance was lacking, even now we still argue, it's normal," writes Inul Daratista on her Instagram. 

1. Ribut Sampai Nangis dan Benci

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Inul also revealed that, even during her marriage with Adam Suseno, they had fought and cried several times. In fact, at one point, feelings of hatred and boredom towards each other arose. However, despite that, Inul and Adam were still able to survive in their silver anniversary of marriage.  

But, whatever was argued about that made us cry and angry, even hate and boredom, were not denied, 25 years together, it is possible that in the long process of marriage, all those nano-nano feelings exist and experience them, each other have made fatal mistakes or hurtful things," said the 41-year-old dangdut singer.

"Maybe here we finally manage to be content in our silver anniversary, thank God. Forgiveness is needed in the household," she added.

2. Household Seasoning

However, for Inul herself, arguments in a household are very common. In fact, she believes that arguments are the spice of marriage. In addition, she also explains that marriage is essentially a worship. 

"Trust and openness, honesty. Our age difference is quite far, it doesn't matter as long as we respect each other. We exchange back and forth, sometimes we argue, but that exchange is the essence of a household. Marriage is a worship," she said. 

(kpl/dwn)