Kapanlagi.com - Inara Rusli, a spirited single mother, is now living her life with new challenges after divorcing Virgoun Tambunan, the lead vocalist of the band Last Child. Since her divorce in 2023, Inara has not only focused on her children but also returned to enliven the entertainment world that she had temporarily left.
During this month of Ramadan, Inara Rusli is even busier. She admits that being a single parent is not an easy task, especially when it comes to balancing time between work and her children. The former wife of Virgoun shares her experiences of fasting with her three children.
1. Going Through Ramadan Alone Without a Partner

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When asked how to start this Ramadan, whether there is a replacement or partner accompanying her, Inara admitted she is still alone.
"Just like last Ramadan, I'm still alone," Inara said briefly when met in the Kuningan area of South Jakarta on Saturday (8/3/2025).
Although going through Ramadan without a partner, Inara remains focused on dividing her time between work and her children. According to her, this makes her learn to manage her time better in order to provide quality time for her children.
2. Time Management Becomes an Important Matter

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Inara realizes the importance of finding a balance between her career and responsibilities as a parent. For her, time management is crucial. Despite her busy schedule, Inara Rusli can still live a colorful life and give her best for her children.
"I can also divide my time for quality time with the kids, so I have to learn better time management," she said.
3. No Complaints from the Kids

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She also revealed that her children do not complain much even though she is busy working. The children have been accustomed to various activities such as courses and extracurriculars, so they do not feel too lonely.
"No, thank God because the kids have been used to their own busyness. There are courses, extracurriculars, so it’s not too much... unless it becomes really rare. But thank God I can still share quality time with the kids even though the quantity is not like before," explained Inara.
4. Focus on Goals, Ignore the Criticism

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As a single mother, Inara feels she needs to be an independent and strong figure. She emphasizes the importance of focusing on life goals even when receiving negative comments from others.
"Well, what can I say, I have to be strong in facing daily busyness, regardless of whatever it is and the insults from people. We have to focus on our life goals because life is not about tests, but it should be beneficial to others, especially those who care and love us," she stated confidently.
5. Lucky to be Supported by Children

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Nonetheless, Inara feels fortunate to have children who support her in every step. They understand her busyness and always provide encouragement when Inara feels tired. During the month of Ramadan, Inara also strives to continue fasting and teach her children the values of religion.
This year's Ramadan also serves as a moment of introspection for her. Inara tries to practice her worship better while continuing to give her best for her children.
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Disclaimer: This translation from Bahasa Indonesia to English has been generated by Artificial Intelligence.