Mpok Alpa's Husband Acknowledges He Still Often Invites to Chat and Smell the Late Wife's Fragrance in the Room

Kapanlagi.com - The atmosphere of mourning still envelops the residence of the late Nina Carolina, better known as Mpok Alpa. Exactly on the 40th day of her passing, the family held a tahlilan and prayer event attended by relatives and congregants in the Cinere area, Depok, on Thursday (25/9/2025).

Aji Darmaji, the late wife’s husband, revealed that the event went smoothly despite heavy rain. For him, the rain that fell was a sign of blessings and grace on the memorial day for his beloved wife. (Read other news at Liputan6.com, if not now, when else?)

1. Rain Questions

"Rain is a blessing. Full of blessings, many angels of mercy also descend, right? Rain is a blessing. We should still be grateful, rain, alhamdulillah. The meaning of happiness and the meaning of blessings are abundant," said Aji Darmaji.

2. Difficult to Forget Mpok Alpa

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Even though 40 days have passed, Aji admitted that it is still very difficult to let go of the memories with Mpok Alpa. He even confessed that he often talks to the late wife as if she were still by his side to ask for prayers and smoothness.

3. Always Praying

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"Yes, I do. I talk to myself, 'Mom, please pray for my event', like that. So I still invite her to talk like that. Talking and praying, along with Fatihah, that's just how it is. So that she can be more at peace there, right? To receive more honor in the sight of Allah Subhanahu wa ta'ala. That's all my prayer. The best prayer for the deceased," he said.

4. Often Unaware

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The deep sense of loss even made him unintentionally want to make a video call to the deceased moments after waking up. That moment made him instantly realize that his soulmate was no longer there.

5. Almost Wanted to Video Call Mpok Alpa

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"When I woke up, I almost wanted to video call the deceased, forgot. Look, I was given a sign by Allah. Remember, astagfirullahaladzim, the deceased is no longer here," Aji reminisced.

6. Still Feeling the Presence of Mpok Alpa

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Not only that, Aji also admitted that he often still feels Mpok Alpa's presence in the house. He often smells the distinctive perfume that the deceased used during her lifetime, especially in their personal room.

7. Kiss the Fragrance of Mpok Alpa

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"Yes, it's from the signature fragrance of the late one. Oh, this fragrance means she is around us like that. I immediately recited Fatihah for her just like that. Earlier during Maghrib, I felt the presence of the late one in the room, I was showering and it felt like she was there," she explained.

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