Causes of Ria Ricis and Teuku Ryan's Divorce, Husband Always Defends Mother Until Lack of Intimacy

Kapanlagi.com - Celebrity divorces often become the spotlight of the public, especially when the couple often shares moments of happiness in front of the public. Of course, many did not expect that the harmonies shared were only temporary pleasures. Behind the smiles and togetherness displayed on social media, various conflicts are actually hidden, which ultimately trigger their divorce.

One celebrity couple that recently shocked the public with news of their divorce is Ria Ricis and Teuku Ryan. The wedding held on November 12, 2021, was a happy moment for Ricis and Ryan. Moreover, the presence of their beloved child named Cut Raifa Aramoana in their marriage also added to their happiness.

The grandeur of the wedding, which was held and televised, apparently did not guarantee the longevity of the marriage. The artist known by her real name Ria Yunita actually filed for divorce against her husband on Tuesday (30/01/2024) at the South Jakarta Religious Court. The marriage, which lasted for more than two years, is on the brink of collapse due to the divorce lawsuit.

The divorce between Ricis and Ryan is certainly not without various factors that caused the breakdown of their household. As a celebrity couple who always attracts attention, there are certainly many public speculations about what caused their marriage to crack.

Quoting from the decision Number 547/Pdt.G/2024/PA.JS which has now been withdrawn from the Supreme Court Directory, here are some factors and reasons that caused Ricis and Ryan's divorce!

1. Incompatibility with In-Laws

(instagram.com/riaricis1795)

Ria Ricis feels that Ryan is not being neutral and fair in his role as a husband towards her and as a son towards his mother. On the other hand, Ryan denies this view by stating that Ricis considers his mother as her own parent, and he always tries to bridge any miscommunication that occurs between his wife and his mother.

2. Not paying attention to the wife

(instagram.com/teukuryantr)

The aftermath of the disagreement between Ricis and her mother-in-law caused Ryan to change his attitude. According to Ricis' perspective, she feels neglected and no longer receives the same love as before.

Ryan feels that his attitude towards Ricis has not changed. He believes that Ricis is too sensitive and overreacts to things related to his mother. This difference in perception further worsens their relationship, creating a wider gap between them.

3. Frequent arguments

(instagram.com/riaricis1795)

Every time an argument occurs, Ryan always says that Ricis hates and is not close to her family. He also always defends his mother by saying, "Mothers are never wrong and should not apologize to their children, because parents are never wrong."

Ryan considers arguments in a household to be normal as long as there is no physical violence or harsh words. Regarding his constant defense of his mother, Ryan feels that it is normal and not a reason to be questioned. According to him, he is just trying to provide clarification and understanding to Ricis so that she can accept advice and input from Ryan's parents.

4. Husband Always Defends His Mother

(instagram.com/teukuryantr)

Ryan always defends his mother with the statement, "She's the one who gave birth to me in this world," even though Ricis was pregnant with their child at that time.

Ryan expressed that he did not intend to excessively defend his mother, but he felt that as a child, it was only right for him and Ricis to be dutiful to their living parents, especially a mother who had given birth.

According to Ryan, there is nothing wrong with that statement, and he feels that Ricis, who is pregnant, has become more sensitive and easily offended by things that do not meet her desires. This eventually made him angry and furious for a long time.

5. Lack of Communication

(instagram.com/riaricis1795)

Ricis revealed that their relationship lacks communication. She once asked Ryan to talk at night, but the response Ryan gave was, "What do you want to talk about? What stories? We're together every day."

For Ricis, this response shows a lack of effort from Ryan to maintain good communication in their marriage. However, Ryan disagrees with Ricis' expression. According to him, he has been realistic in maintaining their household and always welcomes Ricis when she wants to talk.

6. Husband Lacks Initiative and is Passive

(instagram.com/teukuryantr)

As a wife, Ricis relies on many things from Ryan, who was still her husband at the time. However, Ryan feels that Ricis is bossing him around, making him feel like a house assistant. Ryan argues that the tasks requested by Ricis should be handled by her assistant and manager, not him. As a result, Ricis sees Ryan as a man who lacks initiative, is passive, and is difficult to rely on.

Ryan does not agree with this. According to him, calling himself lacking in initiative and passive is a misleading statement that dramatizes the actual situation. Ryan feels that he only asks to be respected and to maintain his dignity as a husband and head of the household. He believes that Ricis does not need to tell her husband to do things that can be done by an assistant or manager, and Ricis should consider the situation and not boss Ryan around and disregard his feelings.

7. Husband Attacks Wife's Parenting Style

(instagram.com/riaricis1795)

According to Ricis, Ryan attacked the parenting style she applied to their child. Ryan once confided in his social media followers, saying, "hopefully Moana doesn't grow up like her mother."

Ryan denies that statement. According to him, Ricis is too dominant and empowers their child too much for content-related activities that should have time and intensity regulations. Ryan is also concerned about their child's psychological and mental well-being.

8. Husband Fails to Provide Emotional Support

(instagram.com/teukuryantr)

Ricis revealed that Ryan has not provided emotional support since the second trimester of her pregnancy. Approaching her due date, the doctor said Ricis was not allowed to have a normal delivery due to the lack of intimacy between the husband and wife.

Ryan's reason for not providing emotional support to Ricis during her pregnancy is because he disagrees with the doctor. According to him, it would be risky to have intimacy because the baby in the womb is quite large.

Ricis also revealed that for eight months, she has not received emotional support from Ryan due to reasons such as work stress, fatigue, and a cold. Ryan's reason for refusing to provide emotional support is because Ricis was not in a good state at that time.

The aftermath of the lack of emotional support has made Ricis feel bad about herself, resulting in her not receiving affection from Ryan. Ricis even considered getting breast implants because Ryan once said, "your body is too skinny, you should eat more."

Ricis also revealed that Ryan once commented on her flat chest. Ryan denies this opinion by questioning, "Is there something wrong with that statement?"

According to Ryan, the intention behind that statement is good, so that Ricis can eat more and appear fuller.

9. Nafkah Untuk Moana

Portrait of Cut Raifa Aramoana (instagram.com/riaricis1795)

In her lawsuit, Ricis demanded a minimum monthly child support of Rp. 20,000,000,- until the child reaches adulthood. However, Ryan did not agree to the amount of child support and only agreed to Rp. 5,000,000,-.

The panel of judges who decided this divorce case determined the amount of child support for Moana based on fairness, taking into account Ryan's ability and the amount of support usually provided to Ricis during their marriage. The determined amount of child support for Moana is Rp. 10,000,000,- per month until adulthood or reaching the age of 21 with a 10% increase per year.

The determined amount of child support has been leaked to the public since the divorce decision was published on Monday (2/5/2024). The pro and contra opinions from netizens have made this issue even more controversial when KapanLagi reported it through Instagram.

"What does she do for 10 million? Her husband's ability should be taken into account," said one netizen who disagreed with the determined amount of child support.

"10 million is just the price of one pair of Moana's shoes, laughed at by school expenses, clothes, and other needs of Moana," said one netizen who supported the determined amount of child support, stating that the child support money is small and insufficient for Moana's other needs.

(kpl/ska)