7 Years Away from Gossip, Here are Harmonious Tips for Dude Harlino and Alyssa Soebandono's Household

Kapanlagi.com - Seven years of marriage, Dude Harlino and Alyssa Soebandono are considered far from gossip. Their household always appears harmonious with their two children, namely Muhammad Dirgantara Ariendra Harlino and Mahendra Malik Harlino.

Nevertheless, Dude Harlino said that until now he and Alyssa Soebandono are still learning to be good husband and wife. One of the keys to their marriage is mutual openness between the couple.

"We are still learning together and always trying to be open with our partners. We both believe that marriage is created by God and it goes back to religious rules. Although there will surely be challenges along the way, we find the best solutions," said Dude Harlino during a virtual interview on Thursday (2/9).

Dude Harlino and Alyssa Soebandono got married on March 22, 2014. When she married Dude, Alyssa was only 22 years old, KLovers.

1. Not a Perfect Couple

Dude Harlino - Alyssa Soebandono (credit: instagram.com/ichasoebandono)

Alyssa Soebandono also feels that her marriage is not perfect. But both of them always try to keep their marriage intact by overcoming various obstacles together.

"The point is, there is no perfect marriage, but how we both become husband and wife, mother and father with the same vision. Our thoughts may differ, but in a marriage, we agree to live together and on the journey towards the same vision, we need openness, good communication," she explained.

In addition to communication, Alyssa and Dude also always try to understand each other's responsibilities as a couple. Cooperation is an important aspect to ensure a smooth marriage.

"We both know our responsibilities as husband and wife, it's a lifelong learning, holding hands to make this marriage closer," continued Alyssa Soebandono.

2. There Must Be Jealousy

Dude Harlino also said that jealousy in a marriage must exist, but within reasonable limits. "There must be jealousy, jealousy is a sign of love but in a reasonable way," said Dude Harlino.

Meanwhile, Alyssa Soebandono said that feelings of jealousy, differences of opinion, and misunderstandings in a marriage will always be there. But it's about how the two of them solve the problem in a good way.

"Whether it's feeling jealous, having different opinions, poor communication, or misunderstandings, they will surely exist. But it's about how we solve them. We can control it, for example, small issues don't have to be blown out of proportion. A marriage is like a recipe, it needs pepper, salt, and other ingredients to remain tasty," she concluded.

(kpl/rhm/lou)