Just 2 Months Married, Clara Shinta Opens Up About Giving Up on Her Marriage - Admits to Experiencing Silent Treatment

Instagram influencer Clara Shinta officially married her partner, Muhammad Alexander Assad, also known as Lxa, on August 30, 2025. However, issues in their household emerged after Clara posted an official statement through her personal Instagram account.

Clara shared a lengthy confession about her household situation on October 20, 2025. She recounted the dynamics of her marriage that has only been ongoing for two months.

"Assalamualaikum wr wb, it took a long time to write this, but with a heavy heart I must convey that it seems our marriage has little chance of being sustained," wrote Clara Shinta.

This influencer also admitted that this is not the first time communication issues have triggered tension between her and her husband. Due to many small problems that are difficult for us to resolve because of the very poor communication, each of us holds back our egos," she added.

In her story, Clara explains the agreement made before marrying her husband to delete each other's exes' photos. Her husband kept his promise, but Clara hasn't had the chance to do it yet due to the sheer number of photos.

"Before getting married, my husband and I made an agreement to delete each other's exes' photos. He deleted his, while I didn't, because I have about 77,000 photos in my folder and I've been putting it off," she revealed.

She emphasized that there are no new photos, no cheating, just negligence due to frequent procrastination. "Even though the last fault lies with me, I am confused about how to resolve it because everything is silent, silent treatment," she explained.

Clara admitted to struggling with the silent treatment her husband was giving her. She explained that her husband chose to leave the house and not communicate, making the situation even harder for her.

"Actually, the problem could be resolved well. However, he chose to go back to his house and not communicate with me. This separation has happened repeatedly, until I ran out of patience the second time. I feel exhausted if every problem is resolved with separation continuously," said Clara Shinta.

In her post, Clara mentioned that the separation did not happen just once. "This separation has happened repeatedly, until I ran out of patience the second time," she wrote.

Clara also shared how her mental and spiritual condition has been shaken due to her household problems. She admitted to abandoning her worship and feeling disappointed in many things. She even compared her fate to others who seemed happy despite doing forbidden things.

Clara emphasized that her husband is not a rough person and is not cheating. However, she feels like a failure as a wife because she cannot keep giving in continuously. "My husband is a very good person, has changed a lot, does not cheat, and is not rough. But it's just that I am the one who has failed," she wrote.

She expressed that she needs to feel loved and protected, not just materially. Meanwhile, at the end of her sharing, Clara apologized to the public for opening up about her household issues. "I apologize for my mistakes as an influencer; I have tarnished my own good name, especially my husband whom I love very much," she wrote.

She mentioned the possibility that her marriage might be difficult to maintain, but hopes that God will protect and ease her husband’s affairs wherever he is. Follow the latest celebrity news only on Kapanlagi.com. If not now, when, KapanLagi?