Kapanlagi.com - Everyone, of course, has made mistakes whether intentional or unintentional. Of course, this is very normal and human to happen in family, friendship, and work environments. As a result, when someone makes a mistake, it can result in strained relationships with others and also affect self-doubt. Even conflicts that occur often damage relationships that were once considered harmonious to become slightly cracked.
When someone makes a mistake, they will unconsciously hurt the feelings of others. It's no wonder that apologizing sincerely becomes one of the solutions. However, it seems that apologizing is not as easy as saying it. In fact, not everyone knows how to apologize sincerely and feels difficult just to convey an apology.
Therefore, here are a series of sincere apologies that you can apply. Let's just go straight to the complete review.
1. Express Regret
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The first and important step in sincerely apologizing is acknowledging the mistake and expressing regret for what you have done. So when you realize that you have done something wrong, you can explain specifically what your mistake was.
In addition, you can express what you are feeling such as sharing your feelings, regret, and having no resentment towards yourself. Well, by apologizing in this way, it becomes a more effective step to release pent-up feelings.
2. Don't Make Too Many Excuses
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The next sincere way to apologize is to never make excuses for the actions you have done. You should also avoid justifying your actions.
In addition, you should not look for reasons to blame others and state that everything is their fault or that you would not have done it if it weren't for them.
3. Acknowledge Mistakes and Accept Responsibility
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The next step in sincerely apologizing is by acknowledging your mistakes. Although this is very difficult as it requires great sincerity, you must do it sincerely. In addition, you must take responsibility for the mistakes you have made and accept them with an open heart.
By acknowledging the mistakes you have made, you can understand the feelings of others. Therefore, apologize directly and provide an appropriate explanation of your regret.
4. Apology Request
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An important aspect of apologizing is to sincerely express your apology. You can convey to the other person with the awareness that you deeply regret the wrongdoing.
However, it is important to note that you should not express excessive guilt. It is enough to acknowledge the mistake and show that you will change and maintain a good relationship with that person.
5. Becoming Better
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Lastly, a sincere apology can also be made by improving oneself. So, after apologizing, you also need to provide understanding to the other person that you will become a better person. Of course, what you say should not be just empty words, you must also follow through with your promises.
Those are some ways to sincerely apologize when you make a mistake. Therefore, you don't need to hesitate to apologize first. It is better to focus on improving the relationship. Hope this is helpful.
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Disclaimer: This translation from Bahasa Indonesia to English has been generated by Artificial Intelligence.